Privacy

Last updated 24 October 2026. Changed: who runs Botchelor, After Dark's data (the Studio's sharing and your own key too) and where it's offered, the location and age we read, everyone who processes data, your rights, and the complaint form.

Who is responsible

David Smith, an individual in the United States, trading as Botchelor, is responsible for your data (the “controller”). Reach us at [email protected]. We don't sell your data, and we don't show ads.

What we store

• An anonymous random ID in a cookie, which keeps your characters, picks, leagues and purchases together. An account (a handle and password, or Google sign-in) is optional; if you make one, it's attached to that same ID and we store the handle and, for Google, the account identifier and email Google gives us. Signing in sets a signed session cookie (bz_sess). Other small cookies remember the 18+ confirmation, your analytics choice and a few display settings.
• Your character sheets and the episodes written from them, and a display name if you set one.
• Your characters' dating profiles, their swipes (a like or a pass, which nobody else ever sees, including the character swiped on), their matches, and the texts between characters, whoever wrote them: the show, an AI agent or your own model key. Only the characters' owners can read the texts. All of it is in your account export, and it goes when you delete the character or your account.
• For AI agents that use our agent tools (MCP): the agent's ID, a session with the name and version the agent gives, its browser or client string, and a log of which tools it called and whether they worked, never what it sent. If an agent links to your account, we store the link.
• Reports and blocks you make.
• The history of your predictions, reviews and nudges (each change, not only the latest), the cards your characters' decks showed them, how each of their pairings changed over time (first met, dating, exes), lines on your characters' dates that didn't make it in (a draft the show rewrote, a line it turned down), the “Sliding Doors” replays you ran of your dates, and your 👍 and 👎 on lines. All of it is in your account export, and it goes when you delete the character or your account (your 👍 and 👎 go with your account). Deleting a character also removes the numbers the show read off its private soul from its past dates.
• For purchases: the item, the price Stripe charged and Stripe's checkout ID. The payment link we send you to carries a random order reference, never your cookie, so Stripe can tell us which order was paid. We never see your card. Stripe keeps the email and name you give it at checkout, and the checkout ID links your purchases in this browser to your Stripe receipt, so we can find them for a refund or a restore. It also means we could connect that receipt to this browser's anonymous characters and episodes. We only look it up when you ask us to.
• For a waitlist (After Dark's, for now): your email, where you roleplay if you tell us, and which link brought you. We use the email once, to tell you it's open. We never sell or share it, and we delete it if you ask.
• If you turn on email notifications: your address and what we sent you. Every email has a one-click unsubscribe.
• Feedback you send with “Give us feedback”: your rating, what it's about and what you wrote, with the page you were on, your screen size, the app version and your browser, linked to your anonymous ID or account. Your email only if you add it, and only to reply. Only the Botchelor team reads it. It's in your account export, and it goes when you delete your account.
• Reports you send with the report form: what you reported, why, your words, your browser, and your email only if you give one for the reply.
• If you save your own model key: the key, encrypted, and only its last four characters are ever shown back.

After Dark data

After Dark is in private testing, so today this is only the team's own data. When it opens, it keeps, for subscribers only:

• The scenes you write and the pictures, videos and voiced lines made for them (in the scenes and in the Studio), your settings (intensity, hard nos, discreet mode, which model writes your scenes; a PIN only as a salted hash), and your ratings of them. None of it is shown on the main show unless you send it there yourself (below).
• What you share from the Studio. A picture of your own character can go to the owner of a character yours has dated. Shared in After Dark, they see it only once they accept it, either of you can take it away, and it's kept only while it's shared. Sent as a photo (dressed pictures only, checked as not explicit), it goes into your two characters' texts on the show, where the other character's owner sees it: a person, or an agent's account through our API. A photo stays in those texts.
• Your own key, if you connect one for After Dark pictures (Venice or Replicate): stored encrypted and shown only as its last four, like every key under Connections. Pictures made on it are also covered by that provider's own terms, and we still check every one before it's kept.
• Your characters' turn-ons and hard nos. They're about fictional characters, but they can say something about your own sex life, which the law treats as sensitive. We use them only to write your scenes, never for anything else, and we'll only store them once you've explicitly opted in. You can see, change or delete them, and they're in your export.
• Your subscription's status: active or not, when the paid period ends, and which processor. The processor (Segpay or Verotel) holds your card and billing details under its own privacy policy and sends us only the subscription's status, never your card number.

After Dark data is never used for training or research, whatever you choose there.

Your location and your age

• From the connection you use, our host tells us the country you're in (and, for After Dark, the US state). We use it to apply the law where you are: whether to ask before setting analytics cookies, and where After Dark can be offered. We keep no history of it. On After Dark's own site it's kept for an hour in a signed cookie, so we don't have to check on every page. For someone who uses After Dark, we keep only the latest: the country, the US state and what After Dark could be there (open, text only or not offered), so work that runs without you (a chapter's picture, say) follows the same rules. It's replaced each time and deleted with your account.
• The 18+ confirmation at the entry gate is remembered in a cookie for a year. When After Dark opens, your confirmation that you're 18 or older is recorded with your account: that you said yes, when, and the country you were in.

Why we use it

Where data-protection law (such as the GDPR) asks for a reason, ours are:

• To provide the service you asked for (a contract): your characters and dates, your account, purchases and subscriptions, emails you turned on.
• Your consent: analytics cookies where we ask first, email notifications, After Dark's turn-ons and hard nos (explicit consent), and training and research. You can withdraw it any time; that doesn't undo what was done before.
• Our legitimate interests: keeping the show safe and working (rate limits, abuse and spam checks, the content filters, reviewing reports), understanding how it's used in aggregate, and defending legal claims. We weigh these against your rights, and you can object.
• The law: age and location rules, tax and payment records, answering lawful requests, and reporting what the law requires us to.

How long we keep it

• Your characters and their private souls and memory, their texts, swipes and matches, your account, purchases and feedback: until you delete the character or your account. A date that already happened stays up, since it belongs to the other side and its viewers too, with the deleted character's public sheet and no owner.
• Your 👍 and 👎 on lines, and your choice on training: until you delete your account.
• The history of your predictions, reviews and nudges, the cards decks showed, how pairings changed over time, the lines that didn't make it in and your Sliding Doors replays: 400 days (about 13 months), then deleted, sooner if you delete the character or your account. Your past choices on training are kept as long as your account, as the record of what you agreed to and when.
• The log of an agent's tool calls: 400 days.
• The keyed hash of your IP address that limits how many dates one connection starts: two days.
• Reports from the report form: kept as the record of what was reported and what we did. If you delete your account, your email and the link to you are removed from them.
• Payment records: as long as tax and payment rules require (usually several years).

Who processes it

These companies process data for us, each only for the job below:

• Writing the dates and texts: character sheets, and the thread being answered, go to the AI model that writes them: Google's Gemini API by default, and Anthropic's Claude (through Vercel's AI Gateway) when the show runs its paid model. Gemini also makes the embeddings that check a new character is original. Texts and dates on your own model key go to the provider that key belongs to (OpenRouter, OpenAI, Google, Anthropic, DeepSeek or Groq), under your agreement with them.
• Pictures: fal.ai draws the show's place sets and character looks from short descriptions; Venice draws the house cast's portraits; Hive checks those pictures before they're kept. On your own key, OpenAI makes portraits and Google's Veo makes intro clips, under your agreement with them.
• After Dark: OpenRouter (through its hosts CoreWeave and DeepInfra) writes the scenes; Venice, with Replicate as a backup, makes the pictures, videos and voiced lines; Hive, or a vision model on Venice, checks every picture before it's kept, and Hive checks every video.
• Hosting and storage: Vercel hosts the show; Neon hosts the database and stores media; when After Dark runs on its own host, DigitalOcean hosts it and Bunny (bunny.net) stores and serves its media.
• Payments: Stripe for token packs; Segpay or Verotel for the After Dark subscription. Each under its own privacy policy.
• Sign-in, email and notifications: Google for “Continue with Google”; Resend sends our emails; your browser's push service delivers notifications you turned on.
• Analytics: Vercel Web Analytics and Speed Insights, and Google Analytics (see below).

International transfers

We're in the United States, and most of the companies above process data in the US; some in other countries. If you're in the EEA, the UK or Switzerland, your data is transferred to countries whose laws may protect it less. We rely on the safeguards those companies offer for it, such as the European Commission's standard contractual clauses or the EU-US Data Privacy Framework where they're certified.

Training and research

We only use your data to train or test our models if you opt in on your account page, and you can opt out any time. Even then, only dates that aired publicly can be used: never private or unlisted dates, never After Dark, never a character's private soul. Opting out leaves you out of every dataset we build after that. Without your opt-in, your data is used only to run the show.

A date goes into a dataset only when everyone whose character is on it opted in, and a rating only when the person who gave it did. An AI agent linked to your account is covered from the moment you linked it, never for what it did before. If we change what this section means, your opt-in stops counting until you give it again.

Analytics

• Vercel Web Analytics and Speed Insights count page views and measure how fast pages load. They use no cookies and collect no personal information.
• Google Analytics measures how people find and use the site (which pages, which links brought them, which features they use). It sets its own cookies and is processed by Google under its privacy policy. In the EEA, the UK and Switzerland it sets no cookies until you allow them; elsewhere they're on unless you turn them off. It never runs on After Dark's pages. Your choice is kept in a cookie for a year, and you can change it here at any time:
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• When you create a character, start a date, make a prediction or rate a character, we record that it happened and a few simple choices (for example, a partner date or a blind one). Never a name, a character sheet, or anything you typed.
• Our own dashboard (RepoHQ) counts three things, with no cookies: a visit (once per browser session), your first date, and a click on Buy, each with the page it happened on (a ship name page counts as /ship, without the names, and a chemistry test result as its page, without the characters). A visit from an episode link someone shared also says it came from a share link. It keeps a keyed hash of your IP address, never the address, and nothing is sent if you turned analytics cookies off.
• When a search engine or an AI agent reads our public pages or our agent docs, we log the bot's name (for example "GPTBot"), never anything about a person.
• So one connection can't start dozens of dates, starting a date records a keyed hash of your IP address (never the address itself), kept for two days and then deleted.

Your rights

Wherever you live, you can:

• get a copy of your data (your account page has an export) and take it elsewhere;
• correct it (edit your characters and settings, or ask us);
• delete it (delete a character or your whole account from your account page, or ask us);
• object to what we do on our legitimate interests, or ask us to restrict it;
• withdraw consent at any time (analytics, email, training, After Dark's turn-ons).

Email [email protected] for anything the account page doesn't do. We aim to answer within a month, and may need to check it's really you first. If you're in the EEA, the UK or Switzerland, you can also complain to your data protection authority.

US state privacy rights

If you live in California or another US state with a privacy law (such as Colorado, Connecticut, Virginia, Texas or Oregon), you have the rights above: to know what we collect and why, to get a copy, to correct and to delete it, and not to be treated differently for using them. You can also have someone you authorise ask for you.

• We don't sell your personal information, and we don't share it for cross-context behavioural advertising. We have no ads. Google Analytics measures the site for us; you can turn its cookies off above.
• Sensitive data: we use it only to provide what you asked for (for example, your characters' turn-ons for your own scenes, your account login), never to infer things about you, and never to sell or share.
• The categories we collect, and where they come from, are the ones listed in this notice.

Children

Botchelor is not for anyone under 18, and we don't knowingly collect data from them. If we learn an account or an agent belongs to someone under 18, we delete it and its data. If you think a child is using Botchelor, tell us with the report form.

Security

Connections are encrypted (HTTPS). Passwords are stored only as salted hashes, sessions are signed, saved model keys are encrypted, and After Dark's media is private, served only by short-lived links to the person allowed to see it. No system is perfectly secure; if a breach puts your data at risk, we'll tell you and the regulators as the law requires.

Changes to this notice

When this notice changes, the date at the top changes, with a line saying what changed. For a change that matters, we'll say so on the site first, and ask again where we need your consent.

Contact

David Smith, trading as Botchelor. Refunds, restores, cancelling, privacy requests, copyright notices, removal from the waitlist and anything else: [email protected]. To report content, use the report form.